i think its more that dad is an honorary girl in the girls vs boys sibling battle
also i think they may relize how crazy mom is but be too polite to say anything

and the extended family cant even tell us apart

and we can be warewolfs in sheeps clothing or maybe we are weresheep and we are only out of favor with the family durring certian moon phases

but more likley we just dont care enough about thier opinions for them to be judgmental towards us because im just one condesending coment away from spending holidays elsewhere ive had offers